Sometimes, life gets in the way.

Someone once said to me, you have to plan for the unexpected.  Not necessarily because of things that happen to you, but because "life gets in the way".  I thought this was a true, but odd statement.  I filed it away, to be returned to later.  After pondering it, I find myself using it, not as an excuse, but as a valid reason for the fact that life doesn't always follow schedules.  

In a busy adult life, there are many things that we are involved in, and they aren't all respectful of the schedules we create.  Sometimes, important stuff has to be put to the side to handle life's little emergencies.  Basically, "life gets in the way".  A friend of mine has been trying to schedule time with me for almost 2 weeks now, and every time I look at my calendar, it is filled up.

Another observation is that people aren't always "happy" about success.  Success to most people is a limited idea that can only be described in terms of a lack of misery, or in terms of a familiar feeling of wealth and showmanship.  A friend of mine and I often go out for drinks, and we will causally observe the crowd.  Sometimes, in a bar full of suits, we will pretend that we are like the other people.  We will make up random financial statements like "Er, Oh, How did you do on the market merger of the IPO stock offering?" At which point we will both throw our heads back and mock laugh "yuk yuk yuk".  The point of the anecdote?  I guess it is that happiness should be defined by the limitless possibilities of our existence, by experiencing new things, and having fun doing it.  I am often saddened by the inability for people to experience things outside of their comfort zone, to really let down their guard, and to look at something new as a child might.  This being the case, people find levels of mediocrity in their world, and when something changes for the better, they label it "success", and they are slightly happy about it. It is unfortunate that people don't honestly experience happiness and contentment thought the human experience.